Side Piece

Do you know what it feels like to be a side piece?
A side dish!

You know like chicken wings, coleslaw, beans, gravy, its not the bulk of your meal.

Imagine being that to someone.

They have a GF/BF, but they come to you in his/her absence or even just for fun.
You are their lust and nothing more.

Unless you decide that you do not mind this position (I know some people),
it is rather heart breaking to find out that this is where you lie.

How you react to this determines a lot:

1. It determines whether you deserve to be 1

If  you carry on as though there is nothing wrong, whilst home wrecking in my opinion you are not worth much and shouldn't be ranked as anything but the thing on the side. 


     2.   It determines what the person means to you

     3.   It determines how much self-worth you have


How your supposed partner reacts determines:

1. Whether he/she truly loves/likes you
2. If he/she has any respect for you whatsoever
3. Whether you should even give him/her a chance

Don't sit around and be made a fool of do your research, many people give little reason for you to trust them, so watch your back and trust no man/woman.

Potential

You have it all there...

It seems, to be laid out in front of you.

There are stepping stones, or a route you might want to call it. 

But where you go from here because of the multiple options is unclear. 

What to do next?

I spend the majority of my time daydreaming, 

I wish I had get rich quick schemes, 

the amount of time I spend thinking I should have been onto something by now.

It makes me question, what I am doing with my POTENTIAL?

I have the ability to succeed but don't ever grasp what is within arms reach 

talk less of aiming higher and trying to achieve the supposed impossible.

I want something, I bite my lip because of pride.

Instead of asking for I work for...

how about for once something works for me?

Time for me to unlock my potential.

Firstly by having a broader outlook on everything.

Too many a time I worry about consequence rather than end POSSIBLE result.

So here I like what ever that chubby lad on young apprentice's name is...

will start with the CONCEPT.

Mine is not fame, nor is it fortune (in terms of wealth).

It is HAPPINESS.

I have been training myself to think, happy thoughts.

This YOLO (you only live once) term has been something that before the acronym had been on my mind.

Last year the death of a close friend shook me.

If I had anything to remember him by, the words 'be strong' 

would come into play.

He was there for me during a harsh break up and always kept me smiling no matter the circumstance.

And I think from then on out I decided nothing would get me down.

But then...

Life had its way with me shortly after his death and another person close to my heart died yet again.

Okay I don't know about you, but if more than one person starts to slide away from you, 

you would start to think that it may possibly be you next. 

Which is why I believe it is my prerogative to go above and beyond the norm 

and to satisfy my need to be HAPPY. 

I want a large proportion of my life to be classified as the good old days.

I don't want to think about when times were bad, hard etc. 

I personally think that a happy soul wins souls and hearts.

And if that is the case all the keys to SUCCESS should be achievable once I am content in any situation.

Glad to be living, for my family, friends, acquaintances you name it. 

Positivity breeds good outcomes, 

so opportunities should be rife. 

Unlock your potential by being the best that you can be.

Its hard to be cheery 24/7 and lord knows I cant do it 365, hormones have their wicked way with me regularly. 

But during the time they don't, 

I seize the day. 

And take control of my life.

Your potential, lies in your hands.

Don't let bad habits get in the way of your success.