Do you know what it feels like to be a side piece?
A side dish!
You know like chicken wings, coleslaw, beans, gravy, its not the bulk of your meal.
Imagine being that to someone.
They have a GF/BF, but they come to you in his/her absence or even just for fun.
You are their lust and nothing more.
Unless you decide that you do not mind this position (I know some people),
it is rather heart breaking to find out that this is where you lie.
How you react to this determines a lot:
If you carry on as though there is nothing wrong, whilst home wrecking in my opinion you are not worth much and shouldn't be ranked as anything but the thing on the side.
2. It determines what the person means to you
3. It determines how much self-worth you have
How your supposed partner reacts determines:
A side dish!
You know like chicken wings, coleslaw, beans, gravy, its not the bulk of your meal.
Imagine being that to someone.
They have a GF/BF, but they come to you in his/her absence or even just for fun.
You are their lust and nothing more.
Unless you decide that you do not mind this position (I know some people),
it is rather heart breaking to find out that this is where you lie.
How you react to this determines a lot:
- It determines whether you deserve to be 1
If you carry on as though there is nothing wrong, whilst home wrecking in my opinion you are not worth much and shouldn't be ranked as anything but the thing on the side.
2. It determines what the person means to you
3. It determines how much self-worth you have
How your supposed partner reacts determines:
- Whether he/she truly loves/likes you
- If he/she has any respect for you whatsoever
- Whether you should even give him/her a chance
Don't sit around and be made a fool of do your research, many people give little reason for you to trust them, so watch your back and trust no man/woman.
Yes I do know.......I was in a situation once where I dated a man who was seemingly single only to find out he was married and his wife lived in another state BUT HE WAS STILL MARRIED. smmfh......never again.
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Sadly some of us women think that we will upgrade from being a side dish to the main course. But a man knows that a woman who is willing to be a side dish doesn't respect herself, so he will give her that same respect(none) throughout the entire relationship.:(
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